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Yesterday, I asked readers to take a 5 minute survey giving me some input around three information product ideas I’m thinking of creating this Summer {some peeps call them knowledge products}, and telling me what’s been most valuable for you here on Abby Kerr Ink. As of the time I’m publishing this post, 42 awesome readers have taken the survey and 26 people have written thoughtful responses to the fill-in question at the end of the survey. Thanks! {If you haven’t taken the survey yet, I need your input, too! The survey’s live ’til midnight EST on Saturday, July 3rd. You can only take it one time, but if you think of additional thoughts afterward, please feel free to get in touch with me one-on-one!}

I’ve learned through this experience the beauty and power of surveying your right people to see where they’re at, what’s working for them, and what they need more of. After the survey closes, I’ll put up a post sharing some of the results and sharing what I learned with you so that you can try it out with your right people, too. What I’ve seen so far is that my readers ask such good questions and express such clear needs and interests around advancing their entrepreneurial dream. Makes me wish I’d chosen to collect names and email addresses in the survey. {Yeah, I could go back and edit it, but I’m just filing that away for next time.} Some of you signed your fill-in question, which I appreciate. You may be hearing from me personally! And I’m planning on creating new content for Abby Kerr Ink around some of your questions, including those free and paid info products that inspired the survey to begin with. So thanks for the feedback, the clarity, and the inspiration! And stay tuned over the next several weeks as I start to roll out new stuff!

Today I want to talk a little bit about figuring out where to start. I get emails from creative entrepreneurs who are ripe with ideas. Their emails to me go something like this: “I have a background in such-and-such and a passion for X, and I’m thinking I’d really like to do this and this and this, and ultimately, THAT, but I’m not sure where to start.”

So let’s talk about that first step. {It’s the hardest one, you know.}

In entrepreneurship, the first step is usually the hardest one.

Photo by Lachlan_Hardy courtesy of Flickr Creative Commons.

Creative entrepreneurs are idea people. Our problem isn’t figuring out what to do — because we’ve got ideas in spades — it’s more about figuring out how to do everything we want to do and do it as excellently as we can {oh, and still manage to squeeze some non-entrepreneurial pursuits in there, too, like staying in shape, playing with the family, and sleeping}. If this is you, I sooooo get you. There’s rarely a moment in the day when I’m not multitasking or looking for a way to add another layer of multitasking on top or underneath of what I’m already doing. I listen to professional development podcasts while I’m working out, occasionally taking a 30 second break to text myself an idea for a blog post or a product. I read eBooks while brushing my teeth and applying my nightly face gel. When I’m brainstorming phraseologie for a client project, I’ve got my favorite Pandora station pumping through my earbuds and I’m clicking between Facebook, Twitter, and my email Inbox in between idea spurts. I am almost always working, thinking about working, or planning for working. {Fortunately, I love the “work” I get to do.}

In other words, I have no need for uppers.

And admittedly, very often, I’ve oversaturated my intake filter to the point where I can’t see straight. {The coming down is tough, too. I’m someone who has to “force” herself to relax. Oxymoronic, I know.}

If you’re like me, your brain is daily toggling between lists of things you Want To Do {look into an autoresponder service for your e-newsletter}, Have To Do {file taxes}, and Need To Do {lose 20 pounds by September}. All of them are important. All of them would help you feel better about yourself and your enterprise. All of them — at least in some abstract way — would be good for your right people.

But where to begin?

First, acknowledge that you only need to see your Step One.

Your Step One is your step one. It may not be the same Step One buddy down the street took.

Step Ones are very personal. They’re triggered by the simplest realizations of what we really need to tap into the Place of Change.

For instance:

My office and my business-related reading has migrated into my bedroom, which is supposed to be my sacred, relaxing space for sleeping. Stacks of printed-out eBooks and magazines with dogeared pages have swallowed up the surface of my little writing desk, which is supposed to be a lovely, organized surface for two lamps and a candle. I’ve been ignoring this mess for weeks {months?}, letting it get a little worse by the day.

And then, yesterday, I picked a Step One. I laid down a new paper on the top of the pile for processing “later” and started to walk away. Then I stopped, turned around, picked up the paper and read it, realized it was nothing I needed to save, ripped it up, and threw it away. Step One completed. I simply stopped adding to the pile.

Step Two might be to sort every piece of paper on that desk into categories: save and file, read and take action, toss immediately.

Step Three might be to dust and wipe off the desk surface.

Step Four might be to put out a new candle and light it for the first time, signaling the completion of this little project.

But yesterday, and today, I’m content with Step One. That’s all for now. And tomorrow, maybe I’ll do Step Two.

This is a tiny little example but the concept is something you can apply to much bigger goals and desires.

You want to open your own shop? Maybe your Step One is calling up the owner of your favorite local boutique and asking if you can take her to coffee and pick her brain.

You want to create your first information product? Maybe your Step One is to make a list of everything you can think of that you’re an expert on, from running a freelance business from home while raising two toddlers, to growing herbs on your kitchen counter, to training for a bicycle race while you’re trying to lose baby weight. {Remember, lots of people don’t know jack about the stuff you know a lot about, and they’d love to know what you take for granted that you know.}

You want to figure out how to build a business online so you can quit your day job and work from anywhere on the globe? Maybe your Step One is to Google “location independent lifestyle” and bookmark the SERPs page so you can explore the sites while you’re drinking your coffee next Sunday morning.

All you have to figure out is your Step One. Step Two is for later. No need to get bogged down in that now.

In the comments, I invite you to share with me your Step One for the next great {even if small} thing you want to do. If the goal or dream feels too personal to divulge publicly, just sharing the step alone with no context is enough.

And if you haven’t yet taken my 5 minute survey, you know I’d love to hear what you’re thinking. Thanks in advance.

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It’s been almost a month since I launched Abby Kerr Ink online. If you’re reading this post, if you’ve commented on a post, if you’ve joined me on Facebook or connected with me on Twitter, if you’ve emailed me privately to say hello, if you’ve subscribed to Inklings {my e-newsletter} and are enjoying my e-course on Creating a Truly Irresistible Niche {look for the sign-up form in the righthand sidebar if you haven’t but you want to}, if you’ve hired me to write for you or consult with you on moving deeper into your entrepreneurial dream — thank you.

Take the survey at AbbyKerrInk.com to give your opinion on which informatino product I should create first.

Photo by pedrosimoes7 courtesy of Flickr Creative Commons.

This Summer, I’m in the dream ideation phase of creating my first free and paid information products. This is super exciting because I’m getting to join my love of teaching and writing with my passion for entrepreneurship. I want to make sure that what I create — especially the first product I create — is exactly what my right people need right now.

To that end, I’ve created a little survey. I’m looking to gauge your interest levels around three product ideas I’m twirling. If you’re reading and enjoying this site and are looking forward to more, you’re probably my right person! Would you mind taking 5 minutes to fill out this simple survey and give me your thoughts on which idea of mine can help you most?

Thanks. You can bet I’m listening. And looking forward to knowing what you really want.

Click here to take the survey

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This is part 3 of a 3-part series called Find Your Niche Online. Check out Part 1A to learn about the importance of influencers when looking for your niche, and Part 1B to check out the bunny trail of influence that helped me launch Abby Kerr Ink. Part 2 talks about the distinction between emulating and imitating your influencers.

Welcome to Part 3 of Find Your Niche Online.

You’ve identified your influencers in the blogosphere. You’ve traveled along on a bunny trail of influence, hopping from blog to blog and learning so much more than you ever realized you would. And you’ve thought carefully about what distinguishes you and your micro niche from your sistren and brethren in your general niche.

At some point, you’ve got to connect.

“Only connect.”

— E.M. Forster

Social media networks are a key tool for connecting online with prospective clients.

If only you and all your new online connections could look this effortlessly cool, right?

And for some of us, this is the scariest part. Reaching out. Saying hello. Letting other people in and around your niche know you’re here. I just want to stay invisible, our fear whines. I just want to stand back in the shadows and watch. Or, I don’t have time for more networking. I’m trying to run a business here.

The fact is, unless you have a built-in audience who is A} already pretty web savvy and B} anticipating your content, you can’t run a business online without introducing yourself to your prospective right people — future clients and customers, potential partners and peers. There’s a breaking-in period that has to occur. You have to arrive on the scene.

Just as in offline life, it’s always best to show up online as yourself.

From experience, I can tell you that things will tend to go better for you if you put yourself out there as you instead of as a carefully edited image of you. I’ve talked before about my recent past as the Creator/Proprietor of a popular lifestyle boutique in my town. I was so into creating the brand identity of my store that I completely whitewashed {okay, chocolate polka dot-washed} some of my own personality under it. I only wanted customers to see the enchanted, dreamy Abby who believed in this experience she was perpetuating. I wanted to be seen as tireless, endlessly creative, and 100% accessible on the sales floor at all times — yet on the other hand, I inwardly bristled at questions about my personal life and tried to deflect customers’ inquiries about anything beyond the shop. The reason why? I hadn’t integrated all of me into my role as boutique owner. The strain of being visible and at people’s service 7+ hours a day, 6-7 days a week for four years got to me. {Yes, I know lots of people have customer service oriented jobs like this. Some people thrive on lots of social interaction. The point is, I didn’t. And to rail against how my self-created role at the shop made me feel, I began to withdraw emotionally, and that become a bummer in and of itself.}

So make sure you show up in a way that you can keep up.

What do I mean by ‘show up’? First, get a website that makes sense for your business. Make it look like you. And invest in it only what you can afford right now. Create the best content you possibly can and publish it on your blog. Depending on your type of business, you may or may not want a traditional, static “brochure” site; you may want a content-driven site that features your content {i.e. “blog posts”} on your Home page. {This way, you’re compelled to create and publish on the regular. It ups the stakes on you showing up.} Approach other bloggers in your niche over email about guest posting. {At the time I’m writing this post, I haven’t yet done this, but it’s definitely on my third quarter To Do list! Any takers?}

Next, find the places online where your right people hang out and be there.

What blogs do you enjoy reading? Who’s creating content that clicks with you because it feels like something you’d like to create? Who’s commenting on the blogs you like? What type of businesses do those people have? These questions are pretty obvious, but if you just take conscious notice of who’s around when you’re deriving great value somewhere, you’ll learn a lot.

Don’t stop there. Start talking!

Check out the sites of the people who are leaving thoughtful, interesting comments on the blogs you like. Subscribe to their blogs if you like what you’re seeing. Follow them on Twitter. Introduce yourself and let them know how you found them. Tony Teegarden invited me to connect on LinkedIn yesterday after he saw me comment on a recent post of Dave Navarro’s, then started following me on Twitter. And yesterday I found Catherine Somerlot on Twitter via someone else we both followed {I think it was the social media superstah Laura Roeder}. I became Catherine’s second follower {she’d only been on Twitter for like, a day} and immediately sent out a Tweet saying how much I liked her Twitter voice {it’s romantic and playful}. Then Tony Teegarden started following Catherine. {By the time you check her out, she’ll probably have way more than 3 followers, because, well, social media’s cool like that.}

And keep in mind, these are not unique transactions. These types of connections happen all day long, every day, in every niche on the social web.

Notice how my niche as a copywriter and coach for creative entrepreneurs, particularly those in the boutique industry, is complementary to the niches of some of the people I’m following. Tony is a coach/consultant in what he calls Self Exploration Optimization. Dave is a product launch coach. Laura is a social media and online marketing coach/consultant. I’m not entirely sure what Catherine does, but from her Twitter bio I gather she’s an artist and freelance designer. I started following her because as a writer, I’m a sucker for a great voice, which she has in 140 characters or less. Tony, Dave, Laura, Catherine, and I all probably share some of the same right people but none of us are offering quite the same thing. {It’s totally cool to follow people who are offering the same thing as you. Don’t think of them as competition. Think of them as peers.}

So if you haven’t already, create a Twitter account and learn how to grow a quality following. Start a Facebook page for your business and put good content there. {Check out the Facebook page for Abby Kerr Ink. This is where I share resources that I find valuable and inspiring in the hopes that you will, too.} Figure out how to use LinkedIn in a way that makes sense for your business.

Remember that just like in offline life, online networking is governed by norms and codes, too — some spoken, some unspoken. If you hang for a little while in any social media network, you’ll start to pick up on them. The biggest pitfalls are too much blustering and too much naked self-promotion.

Be cool. Be considerate. Listen way more than you contribute. Contribute when you have something thoughtful and well-considered to say. Give more than you get. Be witty, but don’t try to be a killer {humor can be easily misread online}.

Just relax, be yourself, and focus on connections: connections with other likeminded people {remember that behind our Twitter handles and avatars, we’re all just people!} and connecting your prospective right people with the content you can bring them that will help them advance their goals and dreams.

So that wraps up our series. Hope it’s helped you come a little closer to finding or refining your niche online.

In the comments, I’d love to hear your advice on connecting online with prospective right people. How actively are you searching for likeminded friends? Or do you just let it happen naturally? Any great strategies you’d like to share with those of us who haven’t dipped more than a toe into the social media waters yet?


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This is part 2 of a 3-part series called Find Your Niche Online. Check out Part 1A to learn about the importance of influencers when looking for your niche, and Part 1B to check out the bunny trail of influence that helped me launch Abby Kerr Ink.

So you’re looking for your niche online.

Three ballet dancers on stilts.

How many ballet dancers on stilts does the blogosphere need? Photo by wisdomeur courtesy of Flickr Creative Commons.

You’ve found yourself some influencers, some bloggers whose sites resonate with you because of what they offer, how they look, and/or how they connect with their right people. You’re studying these sites and absorbing what they do that appeals to you and that appears to be working well for them.

You may have found your way to your bunny trail, the link-to-link, site-to-site journey through the blogosphere that’s teaching you so much about what type of enterprise you want to be. You’ve discovered some really cool things and some really awesome people. And you’re starting to feel like, yeah, I can do this. If he can write about his experience with that, I can write about mine. If she can put herself out there like that, that gives me courage to open myself up, too.

Now Comes The Hard Part

The hardest part, sometimes, is seeing ourselves objectively and realizing what makes us and our offerings unique.

‘Unique’ has got to be one of the most overrused words in the English language. Everybody says they’re unique.

The truth is, everybody is unique. But not everybody renders themselves unique online {or in any other marketing arena, for that matter}. If we can’t see how you’re unique, you’re not unique. We don’t just take your word for it. Unless you’ve clearly, vividly, and convincingly communicated the truth about why you’re unique — you could call this your Unique Selling Proposition, or USP. — you’re just another blog in the SERPS.

Emulate, Don’t Imitate

When you’re first starting out, or when you’ve just stumbled across someone in your niche who really impresses you, it’s easy to start, shall we say, absorbing their oeuvre. Mimicking their voice. Rehashing their best content. Jocking their style, as we rap and hip-hop lovers said in the ’90s.

Most of the time, we do this unintentionally. And sometimes, this is actually OK. When you’re finding your voice and your blogging legs, so to speak, sometimes we practice by trying other people’s identities on for size. It’s one way for us to see what feels natural and what feels dead wrong. We suss out which areas we feel we have the authority to speak into and in which areas we know we’re out of our league.

But sometimes the imitation is intentional and is done out of sheer laziness or schemey-ness. {Schemey-ness?}

And if you blog with dedication for long enough and produce good stuff, eventually you’ll be alerted to someone who seems, for all intents and purposes, to be imitating you.

This is beyond maddening. I think it’s grossly audacious, disrespectful, and sad.

It sucks to imitate. But it’s rad and smart of you to emulate.

Where’s the Line?

It’s okay to emulate. It’s good to emulate. One of the definitions of ’emulate’ is to try to equal or excel.

Take a good long drink of that blogger whose consistently great quality content you yearn to match, whose voice practically leaves goose bumps on your skin, whose influence is flippin’ irresistible.

You can be just like him or her in your own niche.

While writing your content. While sharing your particular experiences. While rocking out your ideas your way.

In the comments, I’d like to hear what’s hard about being unique or communicating how you’re unique as a niche-y enterprise. What flummoxes you?

Ready to set yourself apart from your influencers with a self-crafted niche of your own? Subscribe to Inklings, my weekly-ish e-newsletter, and receive some help with that in the form of my 10-part e-course called Creating a Truly Irresistible Niche. Look for the sign-up form in the righthand sidebar.

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One question I get asked a lot is, “How do you just do what you want to do?” In other words, how do I transition from dream to reality?

I think the answer lies in my DNA. We all have our natural strengths. Some people are naturally good at being thrifty, some people have a gift for working with the elderly, some people are choreographers. I excel at transition. Adventuring through big change is, kind of like, my thing.

When I decided it was time for me to exit the boutique life and take a chance on my lifelong dream of being a writer who works from home and cafés, it wasn’t too long from the moment of “I can do this. I can really do this,” to “I’m doing this!” When I feel in my bones that something is right, I don’t let grass grow under my feet.

I want to share with you the bunny trail of influence that helped me conceptualize and launch Abby Kerr Ink in just three months.

 

Whimsical pet store installation by British artist Banksy.

 

It started with Danielle LaPorte of White Hot Truth and a one-on-one Fire Starter Session I had with her in late September 2009. Some terrifically generous retailer friends had treated me to it. At that point, I knew I wanted to close my shop but wasn’t sure how — should I try to sell or just close? I knew what I wanted to spend my days doing — writing, teaching, advising, creating, conversing — but I wasn’t sure what shape those desires should take. I also wasn’t sure if anyone would actually pay me to do the things I love to do. Danielle’s bracing clarity and inspired acumen helped me envision possibilities that I hadn’t been aware of. After my Fire Starter Session, she emailed me a resource list — other inspiring peeps to check out who could provide support where I needed it.

That was September.

By February 2010, I had closed my shop and announced my new intentions: to go forth and write!

But I still hadn’t checked out the resource list.

But after the dust had settled from the shop closing, one cold February day, I finally got around to checking out the list. And little did I know, it was as if I’d been handed keys that unlocked all the right doors I hadn’t even known existed up ’til that point.

Who I’ve Been Watching, Who I’ve Been Reading

I started with Sarah Bray, who was on Danielle’s list. Sarah’s the creative director of S. Joy Studios, a fun and fab web and graphic design agency {also home-based}. From Sarah, I learned what a content driven website is. In a week’s time, I read through all of her blog archives, noticed the evolution of her writing voice as she became more confident and comfortable with putting it all out there, and learned a lot about user-friendly sites. I felt like I’d made a new friend and I hadn’t even introduced myself to her yet! What impressed me most about Sarah and her site was how utterly down to earth and approachable she seemed. In my first business, I’d worked hard to create an impermeable brand identity that I could hide behind, and that was something I did not want to carry forward into my new venture.

From Sarah’s site, I found my way to Naomi Dunford at IttyBiz, who astounded me with her generosity and her no bull approach to marketing for home-based businesses with fewer than five employees. Naomi’s site blew me away because I realized just what extraordinary value her readers were getting from her. As casual blog readers, we sometimes take for granted the idea that information “should” be free. Now I realize just how wildly generous it is when bloggers share their experiences, secrets, and insights with us — people they don’t even know! Freely sharing amazing quality content that can really equip your readers to do what they want to do is a priceless relationship building tool.

Somewhere along the way, I stumbled upon Charlie Gilkey of Productive Flourishing, Dave Navarro of The Launch Coach, Havi Brooks of The Fluent Self, Sinclair of Self Activator, Marissa Bracke of Can-Do-Ology, Srinivas Rao and Sid Savara of BlogcastFM {one of my very favorite podcasts}, and a couple hundred others. From these people, I learned about the lifestyle of a solopreneur whose blog is a huge part of her business. I observed the type and quality of content these people were producing. I admired the intellectually engaging conversations that took place on their blogs around topics I naturally gravitated to — solopreneurship, marketing, and finding one’s own way. I realized which voices resonated with me and which didn’t and which urged me on to do my best work. I spent hours each day from February through May poring over these posts and listening to podcasts while I walked, did laundry, and wrote. I put myself into self-made graduate courses in Online Marketing {the non-sleazy type} and Freelance Copywriting. I was determined to immerse myself in my craft and learn something everywhere I looked.

Baptism by immersion works for me. But it may not for you.

I’m a studier. I find something that intrigues me and I run with it. Although it may appear so at times to people who don’t know me well, I’m never steering my ship without a course. I’m guided by a blend of intuition, natural curiosity, and scholarship. If I want to be an expert, I study the experts. I study the practitioners, the craftsmen, the people everybody talks about and the people still lurking around in corners with a lot of talent. I absorb everything I can get my hands on. And then I ask myself, where is my unique path through all this? How can I put my own spin on this — the perspective that only I can bring because, well, I’m only me! How does my niche stand apart from the rest of these? {Entrepreneurs, this is a really. important. question. to ask yourself. Especially in the beginning phases.}

So for me, sharpening my game is first about learning and observing and studying, and secondly about diving in there and figuring it out for myself.

For you, it might be totally the opposite. David Crandall of Heroic Destiny has a great post on getting over your fear of “shipping” {which I think is a phraseologie reference to the inimitable Seth Godin}. He made me think about how different people create and then “ship” {or publish, or launch, or put it all there} differently.

What You Can Learn From My Bunny Trail

Your bunny trail of influence won’t look exactly like mine. It may not even look anything like mine. Online marketing and freelance copywriting, as topics of study, may bore you half to death.

So you will discover your own influencers and find your way through your own bunny trail. It’s out there waiting for you. And when you’re on it, you’ll know. You’ll hardly be able to sleep, your mind will be so alert and alive with all these new ideas.

Let’s Talk About Your Bunny Trail

Are you on a bunny trail right now? How do you interact with those who influence and inspire you online? Do you tend to watch them from afar, lapping up every drop of their good stuff? Do you get right in there and introduce yourself? Do your influencers know you exist?

Ready to go more in-depth into creating your niche? Subscribe to Inklings, my weekly-ish e-newsletter, and receive some help with that in the form of my 10-part e-course called Creating a Truly Irresistible Niche. Look for the sign-up form in the righthand sidebar.

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